Be who you are and not who the world wants you to be.
This can be tough. There are so many messages that fly around about who we are supposed to be. If you are a southern girl that comes with its own ideals. If you are married or single. If you do or don’t have children. If you chose a career or not. If you further your education. So many messages on who the world thinks you should be.
Who are you? Who do you want to be? And just because you identify with one of the messages today doesn’t mean that’s who you have to be tomorrow. But let's be honest, figuring it out in the process is challenging. It can seem easier to resist change when it’s unknown and stick with the familiar even when it doesn’t fit anymore. And then when you throw in the reaction of other people, change can be really challenging. Most people don’t like change especially when it may affect them.
But your life is not up to others. Who you are is up to you. You get to choose. You get to grow and evolve. I have worked through a lot of my growth in therapy. And I can say that I had to process it and practice it in a small safe place before becoming it in the world. Most of this relates to how I see the world and practice spirituality. How I see and practice permissions in my life and relationships. At the end of the day, I am alone with myself and I want to like myself. I want to be able to fully embrace and recognize myself.
Who do you see when you look in the mirror? Is she who you want to be? What changes would you like to make?
You are a beautiful person and you deserve to be all you desire to be. ❤️
The 2024 Grace Filled Life Designer is almost ready for print!! Here's a peak at the cover. Thank you for the continued feedback. I have made revisions to this Life Designer. It is 8.5X11. The monthly calendar page spans both pages for more room to fill it in. There are other changes too but I can't spoil it all at once. Oh, I have collaborated with my beloved friend Carly to write the affirmations for you. She is lovely! Stay tuned for the pre-sale. 🌸